Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Embrace


Everyone knew this was coming. I am confined to Korea. Of course I miss home. I miss home for so many reasons that the average civilian can not recognize.
"Embrace"
I know this may sound bizarre, but a very simple hello from my friends is what I miss the most. Most of my friends are from a "church" background. A simple hello for us usually consists of a hug. I never recognized the importance or necessity of those small embraces until now. I am still confused at how a simple hug is a necessity of life. According to Dr. Gary Chapman, these are the 5 love languages... Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Anybody who knows me back home would probably say the Physical Touch (aka Hugs) falls last on that list. A year ago, I would have agreed. But a year ago, I lived at home where I received countless amount of small embraces a day... and never thought twice about them. I was "embrace" satisfied and took it for granted. Just so you know, that comment was probably the least manliest thing I have ever said... enjoy. So in the manliest way possible... I MISS EMBRACES. I long to embrace the ones I love!


This is the only cool verse I could find about embracing: Ecclesiastes 3:4-6
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
a time to search and a time to give up




Thursday, November 25, 2010

Thanksgiving!

This is the second Thanksgiving I have spent in the Army. Last year was at the beginning of Basic Training. This year was in Korea. I usually spend it with my wonderful friends that I call my family back home. Although I spent the majority of the day in my small barracks room, this Thanksgiving was still ironic. I'll tell you why. The past few days have been a little hectic with the work hours because of a North Korean incident (I will elaborate more on that later). Considering our recent work hours, my roommate (Michael Smart) and I spent the majority of the day relaxing. My roommate is a black Muslim from New York. I am a white Christian from Tennessee. He is 6"7... I am 5"9. He played professional basketball... I would probably choose Ultimate Frisbee over basketball. He is loud... I am quiet. He LOVES scary movies... I LOATHE them. Needless to say, we could not be any more different. Here is the kicker; We are great friends! We rely on each other more than we know it. We both miss home more than anything. Smart has a wife and kid back in New York. I couldn't imagine being in his position. We both strive to better ourselves rather than staying stagnant. It is so easy to fall into that category of stagnant life here. You know... just going through the motions rather than really moving forward. We both work really hard to be productive for our future civilian lives. I didn't mind spending my Thanksgiving with a friend... trading corny scary stories from our childhood.
To all of you back home... I love you. Happy Thanksgiving! Keep seeking my King... Jesus Christ!

In case you have not seen the top stories in the news yet, here is what I mean by an "incident with North Korea." Straight from Yahoo news:

YEONPYEONG ISLAND, South Korea – South Korea's president ordered more troops to a front-line island and dumped his defense minister as the country grappled with lapses in its response to a deadly North Korean artillery strike.

In scenes reminiscent of the Korean War 60 years ago, dazed residents of Yeonpyeong island foraged through blackened rubble Thursday for pieces of their lives and lugged their possessions down eerily deserted streets strewn with bent metal after Tuesday's hail of artillery. The barrage darkened skies, set off fierce blazes, killed four South Koreans and raised fears of an escalation that could lead to full-scale war.

"It was a sea of fire," resident Lee In-ku said, recalling the flames that rolled through the streets of this island that is home to military bases as well as a fishing community famous for its catches of crab. The spit of land is just seven miles (11 kilometers) from North Korea, but had only six pieces of artillery.

Despite warnings from North Korea that any new provocation would be met with more attacks, Washington and Seoul pushed ahead with plans for military drills starting Sunday involving a nuclear-powered U.S. aircraft carrier in waters south of this week's skirmish.

The exercises will likely anger the North — the regime cited South Korean drills this week as the impetus behind its attack — but the president said the South could little afford to abandon such preparation now.

"We should not ease our sense of crisis in preparation for the possibility of another provocation by North Korea," spokesman Hong Sang-pyo quoted President Lee Myung-bak as saying. "A provocation like this can recur any time."

Love

This is my first blog! Thanks to Jessica for starting the blogs back when I was in Basic Training. I'll be honest,.. I was quite hesitant to start a blog. I couldn't decide if it were for myself, for others to see my life, or to help people through the writings. I can't help but to think this is a bit narcissistic. Aside from that part of it, I want this to be a place where I can be 100% honest; rather my mood is happy, sad, artistic, thankful, or even delirious. Maybe someone could be helped or even amused through one of these emotions expressed in the future. People tell me I have lived an extraordinary life so far. There have been quite a few "less desirable" moments, but there have been many more incredible moments that God has blessed me with. Maybe God blessed me with both because sometimes those "less desirable" moments make you who you are. What a shame it would be if it were not somewhat documented. I will try my best to give you parts of my life before this point as well as in the present.

As for now, I will leave with a note I wrote before I left for Basic Training a year ago. Oh, maybe I forgot to mention that I am in the Army serving in Korea. I will explain that more in future blogs. This is a letter about my perspective on "love." I know... corny, but give it a chance.

Love...

Everybody in the world has their own viewpoint of love. Most would say that they know what true love is, and some go as far to say that they have shown true love. I beg to differ. We must define the word true before we can say that we have exuded true love. When I hear the word true, I think of these words… real, genuine, exact, precise, accurate, and here is the big one… PERFECT. So when we say that we are giving true love, what we are essentially saying is that we are giving perfect love. I believe this is impossible. Mankind is incapable of supplying perfect love. Only Christ can supply perfect love.
It has always been interesting to me when I hear people say that they are conveying perfect love. I wonder if they have completely thought through what they are actually saying. You may use the argument that if you know Christ, then you know perfect love. This is true; In Christ, you experience perfect love in its entirety. A love that is everlasting, infinite, and perfect. But do not be fooled into thinking you can exude this perfect love. This is what makes God who He is… His perfect love. Our love as humans is finite; which is what makes us who we are. Think of it like this; although we are sinners, we strive to be like Christ who is perfect. Although our love is finite, we strive for infinite love, which is the love of Christ.
This is not a discouragement but rather an encouragement. We are called to love. Even further, we are called to love as Christ loved us. If we make this our duty, then every fiber of our being should be striving for this perfect love. I thank all my brothers, sisters, mothers and fathers in Christ that have made every effort to exude this love of Christ. More importantly, I thank Jesus for giving me this type of love that I know without out any hesitation, is PERFECT.